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Unlike him, however, the engineer wasn’t looking for anything serious.

That’s the sort of miscommunication Stadil hopes to avoid with his next attempt, in which — rather than date strangers at scale — he’s going to look for personal recommendation from friends and friends of friends.

He didn’t go out with every woman who swiped right, but he did, over the course of the summer, go on first dates with 150 of them.

By the end, he was single, ,000 poorer, and profoundly exhausted. A system that, while it does statistically favor women, will eventually reward its spammiest and most prolific male users.

Coffee Meets Bagel, a four-year-old women-founded app, shows each user only a limited, changing selection of matching profiles.

Last year, Tinder introduced new algorithms that would limit swiping among its most overactive members, requiring that they pay either or per month for the privilege of unlimited likes.

That study, which my colleague Jeff Guo wrote about last week, found that because women are vastly more selective with their right-swipes, men have to engage a lot more women to get the same number of matches.

Mathematically speaking, that means Stadil — or, more accurately, a piece of software he built to swipe and message for him — has approached roughly 6 percent of San Francisco’s total female population. "I am still single." Stadil is not, to be clear, some kind of Tinder mega-player: On the contrary, he had just gotten out of a serious relationship when he joined the site, and he joined to find his next serious girlfriend.

Of the 150 first dates, 52 became seconds; 17 became thirds.

Stadil did fall pretty hard for one woman in particular: a fellow software engineer who worked at Google.

The feature was billed as a means to cut down on spam, but Gareth Tyson, the lead author of that recent Tinder study, sees an alternative explanation.

“This rationing is intended to make people more frugal and discerning in their liking strategies,” Tyson said.

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It would be all too easy to blame this situation on Tinder, an app that has made finding a date easier than ordering a pizza.