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I know an ordinary looking short guy with no college education who manages a gas station for a living who hooked up with 3 different girls from Ok Cupid, one of them being his current girlfriend. If he can manage that, whatever you're doing on an online dating site is very, very wrong. Maybe it would've helped not to keep such rigorous stats though, who needs to look at it in #s form, that can't be good for you. I'd focus more on real life approaches, you're still in college right? Imagine how a girl would feel if she believed you were actually interested in her because of your dishonesty, and then figured out that you say the exact same thing to 284 other girls, and that you just want to bone ANY of them? If he had said "I only messaged 5 women" everyone on here would tell him he didn't message enough women.
I think the biggest problem is, at least from reading the sample messages you've sent women, you seem cold and completely lacking in humor. I had a horrible time with online dating before I finally gave up and realized no one online wanted to date me (or even respond to my messages). How invested could you have been in those 283 random girls? If you want a one night stand, online dating isn't the best place to do it. Find a drunk chick, buy her a few drinks and take her home. Parties and the like...isn't that the kinda girl you want anyway? Imagine how a girl would feel if she believed you were actually interested in her because of your dishonesty, and then figured out that you say the exact same thing to 284 other girls, and that you just want to bone ANY of them? So which is it, a numbers game or "everyone's special".
however, for an unown reason, I just saw my boyfriend. I am glad it worked out, as the difference in hsi pesonality, has helped me grow into the person I want to be. u can be great for a girl, like the other guy was for me, but the girl will just chose someone else, and get caught up with them.. I would guess most girls go for the best package, the person they enjoy the most, a combination of loos, chemistry, personality, outlooks onl ife.. Please do not think it is y OU: the worst thsat could have happen, is that, although the girls viewed u as attractive, fit, and liked u, they just were more into ther other guys. I'm surprised you still haven't understood the reasons of your "dating" failures.
That's because you're not even remotely interested in dating or connecting seriously with someone beyond sex.
And even though I think it's douchey, I realize that lots of guys like to play games that include leading girls on in order to get in their pants. Evidently, there are also girls who like to lead guys on in order to get a free dinner, too. But this OP actually does not see women as human beings. He does not want to talk to or get to know any women; he dislikes it, and he dislikes women.
He just really feels he needs to have use of female genitalia, right now, and that he is somehow entitled to it - and he just needs to get his formula right.
I have spent so much time trying to reach out and connect to so many girls and the vast majority of them never even responded.
Of course, lots of guys are out to "get some" and they use player behavior and all kinds of tricks.
They might not even have real interest in meeting men.
Besides, your % response is quite high by many men's standards from what I gather. You could write the most sincere messages, be goodlooking, and still just bunk out. Pretty much every girl on there is going to be the same in your eyes until you actually meet them and get to know them.
I considered leaving my boyfriend for him, and nearly did. Also - I found the second guy more attractive than my boyfriend...
For one reason or another, I kept seeing my current guy, and we are happy one year later. his pesonality ws far more of a match for me, than my boyfriends...