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What's your policy on taking people back, and what are your thoughts on my reasons above? Editor’s Note: This article originally appeared at Cellar Door, the personal blog of Gabrielle Puglia. You need to understand that the military is a brotherhood.However, I find it incredibly romantic when two people are separated by circumstance and time and overcome the odds to end up together.Have you had successful relationships with anyone the second time around?Making a decision is challenging because it feels like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.Here are pros and cons of taking someone back: When you have that familiarity with each other, it's so easy to fall into bad habits.
It's definitely riskier to take someone back than it is not to let them back in your life.
This will be trying for you, but imagine how he feels. Military men have likely traveled to parts of the world you have not, and can tell you facts about different cultures/countries/states. Military men are used to being thrown into countries and situations with which they are unfamiliar, so when traveling, always expect to have a great navigator around.
Expect sleepless nights, and bouts of being on the receiving end of awkward silences. You need to try your hardest to understand, get him to eventually talk about it (preferably to a professional) and pretty much avoid all triggers — like war movies. You will be inundated with more random facts about places like the Middle East or the South than you care to cram into your brain. I won a round of trivia just because I knew the currency in Bahrain. I am a sucker for someone who is passionate about his work. They are modern day heroes; if that’s not something to be proud of, I’m not quite sure what is! Basically, dating a Generation Y military man is no different than dating anyone else. His may be unimaginable to you, but that does not make him any better or worse.
But it's still a tough decision when you have that option.
And people have the knack of reappearing after you've just gotten over them.
Sure enough, a few weeks later, she told me she had feelings for me.