My boyfriend is still on a dating website
I feel really confused though, as he told me that he used to do this (“yes” or “no” thing on the dating website) before we started a relationship almost just to fill the time I guess.He also told me that the reason he’s started doing it again recently was because he’s bored whilst he’s staying in hotels.
At first, he replied that he has a couple of times, and then when I was unsure whether he was being honest, I asked again and he then said a couple of times a week.
The other big difference is that our homes are much more porous than before. In the past, there was one phone and we knew who had called.
Now, your partner could be texting someone else in another room and you don’t know.
I feel really confused, as my current partner used to tell me that he only had eyes for me and he was (my name-)sexual/asexual, as he stopped looking at other girls in that way.
After this all came out about him looking at dating sites, he seemed to take this all back and reminded me that he is heterosexual.
This is a really tough one because where do you draw the line between normal and dangerous – especially as technology has made the line much more blurry.