Im dating someone 10 years older than me
The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.
In other words, all the things you would never do if you were on a date with an over-33 woman (because then she’ll shove you in Make Him Wait zone).
These guys dress like nerds, have hair and grooming that look like crap, and worse, are often way too skinny or fat. You could dress like crap and not worry about your hair or your clothing too much, and still probably get laid.
But if you’re 44 years old hitting up 21 year-old women, I’m sorry, but you’re going to have to step it up a little.
They don’t want a 38 year-old guy who acts like he’s 27. Trust me, when you act your age, but are cool and non-creepy, Type 2 VYW are literally the easiest women to have sex with quickly. ” This is not ASD…no technique will bust through this.
They want a 38 year-old guy who acts like a decently cool, non-creepy, 38 year-old guy. I’ve been doing this for years, and to this day I’m still surprised how fast and easy it is (once you find those Type 2s of course). It’s simply a very strong, visceral preference, often based on the age of her parents which obviously you have zero control over.