Dating someone who you are not attracted to
Sometimes it takes a bit of time for people to grow on us and proximation has a lot to do with who we are or not attracted to.
But if you just aren't feeling it, that's a-okay too.:)I agree with others here. I was meeting him after my classes ad even though I was super tired, I didn't want to cancel on him last minute.
I'm glad I agreed to go out again with him because I was in a better mood this time, enjoyed the date a lot and realised I was very attracted to him.
Long story short, if you think you guys get along then there's no harm in giving it a few more shots.
If you still don't feel attracted to him, you can always try staying in touch as friends.So I [23F] went on a first date with this guy[26m], and it went really well.We got along great there wasn't a lot of pauses in the conversation. My biggest concern is that I didn't find him attractive. He did look a little different from his photos, which is something I expect.Of course there is a very good chance he could take this as "lets be friends" and you'll never hear from him again.It's also possible he'll take what he can get from you with the hope of eventually convincing you. For now, just have a second date and see what happens.
I've had that experience with my college boyfriend.